4 Books To Read If You want to Master Influence

As a business owner, developing the ability to persuade and influence people is critical for your success. It’s one of the most important skills you can have as not only does it help you to communicate clearly and effectively with others, but to build long lasting, fruitful relationships, as well. 

Whether it’s convincing prospective customers to buy from you or inspiring colleagues to join forces, the power of persuasion will undoubtedly help you reach your business goals faster and more efficiently.

I’ve put together a short list of 4 books to read in order to boost your ability to persuade others and ultimately master the art of influence.

1. Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini

As a business owner, you've probably heard of Robert Cialdini's classic work, “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion.” With over three decades of experience in psychology, Cialdini masterfully breaks down the science behind how people are influenced. 

You'll discover the six universal principles of persuasion:

  • Reciprocity
  • Commitment and consistency
  • Social proof
  • Authority
  • Liking
  • Scarcity

By understanding and applying these principles, you can effectively persuade others, expand the reach of your message, and ultimately reach your business goals.

Notable Example: The principle of scarcity is often employed by e-commerce companies during sales events, where limited-time offers and low stock alerts create a sense of urgency and encourage customers to make a purchase.

The Psychology Of Persuasion - Mastering Influence

2. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

No list of books on the mastery of influence and persuasion would be complete without Dale Carnegie's timeless classic, “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” This book has stood the test of time, providing invaluable advice on building and maintaining relationships, understanding human behavior, and persuading others. 

Carnegie's highly effective yet simple tips, such as proactively addressing the person you are speaking to by name, genuinely listening, and expressing appreciation, will help you foster strong connections and positively impact your business interactions.

Notable Example: By using Carnegie's advice to proactively praise the achievements of your team members, you can boost their morale, increase motivation, and ultimately improve productivity in your business.

Mastering Influence Book Reccomendation - How to win friends

3. Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade by Robert B. Cialdini

Another must-read from Robert Cialdini, “Pre-Suasion” delves into the art of effectively setting the stage for influence. Cialdini explains how the moments before a request or interaction can significantly impact a person's decision-making process. 

This book is a tool that will teach you to create the ideal conditions for persuasion, priming your audience to be more receptive to your message or proposal.

Notable Example: In a marketing context, crafting a captivating story about your product or service can evoke emotions in your audience, making them more likely to invest in your offering. 

Art of Influence Inspired by Robert Cialdini

4. Yes!: 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to be Persuasive by Noah J. Goldstein

This eye-opening book by Noah J. Goldstein explores the science behind persuasive techniques, providing actionable tips for everyday use. 

In his work, Goldstein highlights more than 50 research-backed strategies to effectively persuade and influence others in a variety of settings, from important negotiations to sales presentations.

Notable Example: One persuasive technique discussed by Goldstein is the use of concrete language and timing. By carefully crafting your message and choosing the opportune time to deploy it, you can increase its perceived value and make it more appealing to potential  customers.

Noah J Goldstein - 50 Scientiically proven ways to be persuasive

Applying Persuasion in Different Business Scenarios

Learning how to effectively persuade and influence others is invaluable in a multitude of business contexts. Let's explore how to apply persuasion techniques in various scenarios:

Sales and Marketing

In sales and marketing, persuasion is about appealing to the needs, wants, and interests of the customer. Make use of Robert Cialdini's principle of reciprocity, where giving a small gift or sample can make the customer feel obliged to return the favor, often by making a purchase. Emphasize the scarcity or uniqueness of your product or service to create urgency and stimulate demand.


When it comes to negotiations, effective persuasion lies in understanding the other party's perspective and presenting your argument in a way that aligns with their interests. Dale Carnegie's principle of genuine interest in others can be very useful here. Listen actively, validate the other person's point of view, and build on common ground to achieve a win-win outcome.

Team Management

Persuading a team requires strong leadership and clear communication. Here, commitment and consistency, as discussed by Cialdini, are key. Clearly articulate the team's goals and maintain a consistent message. Furthermore, Dale Carnegie's advice on praising the achievements of your team members can boost their morale and increase motivation.

Customer Service

In customer service, persuasion is about turning a potentially negative situation into a positive experience. It involves persuading the customer that you're on their side and are committed to resolving their issue. Use authority (one of Cialdini's principles) to assure the customer that you are knowledgeable and capable, and employ Carnegie's principle of expressing appreciation to make the customer feel valued.

In reality, there are hundreds of business scenarios in which persuasion comes into play.

By understanding the context and applying the right persuasive techniques, you can influence outcomes and drive success in any business scenario. These four books are just the start… if you're looking to learn more about mastering the art of persuasion, let's chat!

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